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Read the December 2009 Doctor Flamingo Newsletter

London and France...
by Doctor Flamingo  Spring of 2009 Eiffel Tower
My most recent trip to France back in April was filled with wonderful sights, meals, and shared experiences. I went with a close friend who showed me his favorite city, London, while I shared my favorite sites in France with him. Highlights included the wisteria in bloom at all the Loire chateaux, the view from the Eiffel tower, beef bourguignon at La Vieux Paris near Notre Dame, and strolling the harbor at Honfleur--a port my great grandfather sailed into over a century ago.

We stayed at an apartment in Paris near Place Republique, a convenient location near all the major metro lines. We thrilled to see a ballet at the elegant and ancient Opera Garnier. And we loved strolling the streets of London.

The next phase of life
by Dr. Karen Stephen, Mental Health Advisor, National Association of Baby Boomer Women  Retirement finally arrived with flamingos on the lawn! Flamingo retirement
Well...retirement for Doctor Flamingo finally arrived on December 1st. I said a sad farewell to my colleagues and patients but was only too willing to give up on call duties (those runs to the Emergency room in the middle of the night). And I said hello to having more leisure time...time to pursue hobbies, keeping up my online presence at my Doctor Flamingo site and my duties as the Mental Health Advisor for the National Association of Baby Boomer Women (the top online site for boomer women).

My most exciting prospect for retirement is becoming a grandmother for the third time. My daughter and her husband are having their first child the end of January and I'm brushing up on my diaper changing skills.

I also plan to explore a new photo art hobby...taking travel photos and turning them into oil paintings with computer software.

I also envison, for the guys out there, taking photos of exotic cars and combining them with their favorite travel photos. It would be like taking your favorite ride to Paris with you. Or dreaming of being in a Ferrari rolling down a Paris street.

Latest NABBW column
Dr. Karen Stephen  How to Survive the Holiday Blues Flamingo Tree

This column will appear December 15th online at the National Association of Baby Boomer Women site. Look for the Mental Health Advisor in the Advice Column section of their home page.

Everyone knows the holidays are difficult for many. This column explores why the holidays can lead to the blues and what to do about it.

See a preview of the entire article on my website. It comes in a printable format for your downloading.

A fun holiday gift idea
by Doctor Flamingo  Spice up your love life Santa Gift

For the couple who has everything.

Boxer shorts for him and a matching thong for you at the link below! It's never too late to be daring.

A Fresh Start for Monthly Newsletter
Doctor Flamingo  All the news for women of any age

Now that Doctor Flamingo has joined the ranks of the resplendent retired, she will have time to send her newsletter to you on a monthly basis.

In addition to directing you back to new features on her Doctor Flamingo Online website, she will provide links to articles on health and well being of special interest to women of that certain age.

Please consider forwarding this month's newsletter to your friends and acquaintances if you feel they might benefit from the information provided...or simply enjoy a few flying flamingos! Click on the link Forward this email Newsletter to a Friend at the bottom of this newsletter.

I am trying to reach as many women as possible. Even one referral from each current recipient would double the flamingo fun.

Online Support Resources
Dr. Karen Stephen  Online support resources for overeating problems... chipmunk eating

Each month I will offer online resources for an issue of interest to women of all ages. These are resources I have used myself or have recommended over the years to my patients. I have found them useful and accurate in terms of the information they impart.

On occasion, I will post a resource for which I am an affiliate. This means than if there is a fee involved or something to purchase, I will receive a small commission on that purchase if the website link is used to access the resource site. I will clearly indicate when this is the case so that you will have the choice of using my link or going to the site directly.

You may notice there are banner advertisements for various products throughout my website. These are affiliate ads and I appreciate your using them to purchase the products advertised.

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Read this review of Degrees of Obsession by Robyn Y. Demby, author of What the Storyteller Brings:

What a beautiful description of the "meaning of it all" which dawned on the main character, Charlene, in this novel: "The challenge of marriage was to find a steady beat, to rise above fractious moments, selfish choices, and clouded beginnings. The goal was to find solace in familiarity, to set aside blame, to dig deep for the compassion that could heal the wounds of body and soul."

Wow. I absolutely had to write that quote from Karen Stephen. This novel was superbly written. Rich in description, the author's love of antiques was quite evident. The title accurately described a novel which gave an inside look at the pain of infatuation; the power it holds over one's emotions and behavior, and how it could take away the peace and contentment from another relationship as one tries to move on. It is sad how obsessing over a bad man can blur a woman's appreciation for a good one.

Conflicting emotions shifted through me as I read this book. With the hold this other man had over Charlene's senses, I experienced a forbidden excitement as I wondered if this woman would be unfaithful to her husband. At the same time, concern for Charlene's marriage gave me a flicker of hope that she would be able to control herself. Then the strong possibility that her husband would think that she was unfaithful anyway made me wonder why she should bother holding back.

Not many authors can pull off flashbacks and get away with it, yet Karen Stephen has great skill in this area. I couldn't make up my mind which was more riveting, the current dilemma facing Charlene, or her flashbacks in time. Karen Stephen moved so seamlessly between the two that the past and present flowed together as an artful blend of suspense and mystery.

Another quote I want to pull from her novel is, "I felt my soul rise and take flight, with all the brilliant colorings of a mortal released from a cocoon of neediness and regret." It is amazing how so few words could speak so much. I highly recommend this novel. I felt regret at finishing it as I enjoyed it so much that I didn't want to let it go.

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